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Speaking Engagements for Parents and Teachers:

 " Be enlightened about the impact of Punishment & Reward versus Cause and Effect "
 
" Bullying; change and  master the situation."
 
" 7 Essentials for a Happy Family! " ©
 
" Color psychology: delete stressors and enrich life !"
 " Crystal Clear Communication "

Speaking Engagements about Life-Enrichment:

" Change Your Thinking, Change Your Future!" ©
 
The key to success in creating Relationships, Health, Wealth & Happiness!
   Learn about the  hidden magic of 5 Universal Laws...

"Crystal Clear Communication at home & at work!"

Tools  for awareness, conflict-resolutions and how to be responsible for your own happiness!"

The Hidden Truths & Insights of Systemic Constellations

When scars of the past are not healed they find their way through to impact future generations. When love stops flowing...Systemic Family Constellations are one of the most effective, fast  and insightful ways of healing. This is the work of Dr. Bert Hellinger

 

To Love UNconditionally versus conditionally??

Surprising results and schocking insights on our personality and relationships

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2010 October 28 Carla spoke for "'Turn on The Light"  Childernes Healing Center
Palm Beach Convention Center  " The Heart remembers what the Mind forgets"
 
2011 February 19 Speaker at NEW LIFE EXPO Convention Center Ft Lauderdale
" How family Constellaitons can Change Your Life!"
 
If you want a passionate-on-all-levels-long-term relationship: don't get married/ comitted in the stage of 'infatuation'..you might awake and see what is missing when it is too late..Although...you can always divorce of course...
 
 Discussed on BlogTalk Radio:
'Meant to be' is only true when you listen to the wisdom of your own heart, and act accordingly...fear-based thoughts don't keep you save but actually destroy...Don't comfort yourself with 'that was meant to be'...when things turned to be the wrong way.Your focus needs to be on the best! there is always more then one choice...find the one that gives you the best feeling...
 
 Systemic Family Constellations:
...We are all part of a big 'family-soul'.  When love is hidden, entangled, the scars of the past not healed, the result can be real suffering in many ways for future generations.
Bringing back in balance, 1 member present as a client in a Constellation becomes more loving and the other family members (who were not present) change too...the family -soul/energy back in balance?
 Example: a woman did not speak to her own mother for 22 years. The same pattern was with her grandmother...
A few days later  after the healing  that took place during the Constellation session: the client  got a phone call: mom....
Systemic Family Constellations Medicine for the Soul

Boca Systemic Constellations Article in Quantum Life, 2009

Why do you intend to heal others?

Trust is one strong component for..

  ....  healthy-functioning relationships. You might agree with that, but do you also know HOW to create (more) trust in your world or in yourself, especially when you don't think that trust is highly present in your life? 

 It could be that as a child you overheard your parents saying to someone else, "I don't trust that kid at all!" "You can never trust them!"  Or you may have heard some similar expression.
 
Your subconscious collects all data in your life and determines much of your motivation and behavior. Usually, the negative statements you heard about yourself became part of your identity, and ironically, you most likely are proving its truth in your life. It is a terrible feeling when people don’t trust you for no apparent reason, or when you feel untrustworthy or distrustful.
 
 Our daily conscious thoughts influence our well being and the way we deal with our lives. If we want to intentionally create more trust in our lives, the first step is to question and identify the fear behind the thoughts we tend to have....”Why do I think that, and who says that it is true?”
Maybe your world view is pessimistically colored, and you consider your views as realistic...without realizing that 'realistic' is a personal, subjective description that is perceived differently by everyone…You may worry that the world is fraught with danger. The world has always been dangerous, we just know more about things outside our immediate environments because of technology.
 
A very simple remedy to get out of this ‘state of fear-thinking’ (the opposite of TRUST)- is to control your self-talk.
Vague sentences like: "You cannot trust anybody in today’s world" or:
"I told you! Never trust anyone!" must be eliminated immediately. One or more disappointing experiences can not predict more of the same by themselves. However with negative thinking they can easily become ‘self-fulfilling prophecies”
 
Simply said: If you focus on trust with your whole being, you can create so much positive energy that a shift is inevitable. For good things to occur in your life, you need to feel as good as possible.
Trust is one of these pillars to thrive on.
 
 Do you want to meet people you can trust?  Ask for it. Radiate trust. What you send out, you'll get back. Your clear positive intentions will manifest another reality. Try it for a while and see what happens
 
The result of trusting in "all is well" thoughts, gives you the opportunity to escape from where you are at this moment, even though it seems to be the opposite of what you’re experiencing now. Science shows that fearful people are more likely to be robbed than fearless ones

 

This  supports  the thesis that taking responsibility for our thoughts consciously is bringing us closer to where we want to be!

 

Trust connects you to  the right place   
        
"I only meet trust worthy people"  
"I trust that whatever feels good is good".                          
"I am safe.”
“Everything is working out for my highest good”

Fear of being hurt again closes the door for the best possible relationships....commiting on a superficial level, in order to keep safe? Such a pity, live life at it's fullest, choose relationships with passion: on every level/area! Fear does n't keep you safe, it only distroyes...Love and trust, are the answers...